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Many of us, especially the under 40's crowd, are scratching for some solutions in a very unforgiving world. The majority of Corvette owners are well into their 40's, and are pretty well settled. You may want to pass the following words of advise to someone from the "X" generation. Remember, nobody ever said life was going to be easy.

Never Give Up


Are you having a tough time in your career? Have you been laid off and are still looking for work? Are you overworked, stressed, and tired in your present position, and are unable to visualize a solution?

Sometimes we believe it is the economy's fault that we are having such a difficult and frustrating time in our career. And, we have a long list of evidence to prove our beliefs. People around us are getting laid off by the thousands. Every day another upsetting story appears in the newspaper about the stock market or another company that is losing money,or another confidence shattering scandal, or even a war. We worry about our future, and wonder what will happen to us.

Each day we get more and more discouraged. And, many of you have given up. (Even if you have not admitted this to yourself yet.)
Here's something to think about: If you believe that a disappointing career is the best you can expect, it will become your reality (and your future.) Your career gets better when you make it better. It may not be easy, and you will have to overcome your fear of the unknown, but it is possible to get what you want in your career if you take the necessary steps to get there.
So, How Can You Make Your Career Better? Try the Steps Below:

1. Stop Talking About What Happened (Or, What Is Happening)

Are you unable to forget the day you were laid off? Are you still upset about it? Are you still steaming inside because a co-worker got promoted, a new office, more money, additional resources, etc. and you didn't? Yes, we all know what happened to you. (We've heard it a thousand times.) And, we understand and feel your pain. But the more you talk about the situation, without taking action to move past it, the longer you will stay where you are.

2. Stop Believing You Are The Only One With Problems

No matter how dire your career may seem right now, there is someone worse off than you. What are you grateful for? Do you have a roof over your head? Three meals a day? A loving family? Some people do not even have this much. Who can you help? Making a difference in other people's lives is why we are here on this planet. Helping others will keep your mind off your troubles and allow you to feel better about yourself.

3. Stop Over Thinking Everything

Our careers (and lives) are not as complicated as we make them. Is there a career goal you want to reach? Make a plan and then execute it. What stands in the way of doing something so straightforward and simple? Fear, worry, and a need to make sure everything will work out first. Life is not about guarantees. You do the work first, and you receive the rewards second. It is not the other way around. It's always a good idea to consider your alternatives before making a decision, but over thinking and over analyzing before you take action, will keep you from reaching your goal.

4. Stop Making Excuses

Are you a busy person? Yes. Do life and responsibilities get in the way? If you let them. It's time to tell the truth. You do not have what you want in your career because you have not been taking action to achieve your goal. You can say an outside force distracted you, or you have been trying hard and getting nowhere, but have these sentences gotten you any closer to your goal? Maybe you haven't been ready to go after what you want. Maybe you were not sure a certain direction was the one you wanted to take. Uncertainly is understandable. But uncertainly holds you back. Do not put faith in your excuses; take responsibility for creating them, so you can move forward instead.

5. Start Moving

At times you will not feel like sending out one more resume or making one more phone call. At times you will not feel like dealing with all the work and stress at your present position. Usually the one thing you do not feel like dealing with is what brings you the solution you are seeking. Nothing worthwhile is easy in the beginning. But over time, you will see results, if you start moving now.

So what do you say? You only have one life to live so it might as well be a life you love!